October 17, 2000
J. Leonard Henderson
403 West Hwy 82
Wallowa, OR 97885
Wallowa County Juvenile Department
107 N. River Street, Suite C
Enterprise, OR 97828
Attn: John Lawrence
RE: Philip Henderson
Dear John,
I have truly come to appreciate your presence at Wallowa County Juvenile. In our experience with public agencies since Philip’s behavior obtained a significant level of dangerousness in 1997, you are the first person in Wallowa County to demonstrate common sense and fairness.
Beginning with
our first pleas for help in 1997, Joanna and especially I have been
treated prejudicially, suspect as THE CAUSE, and subjected to a SOSCF
investigation based on a completely spurious “diagnosis” of Post Traumatic
Stress Disorder.
After SOSCF’s
unwarranted attempt to destroy my life, I meticulously isolated myself from any
of Philips’ “issues”. I have gone to
great lengths to make sure MY NAME appears NOWHERE in any reports or appraisals
of Philip. This was completely
necessary to refocus official attention from the normal “Parent Blaming” and
make Philip’s behaviors his own responsibility.
Dr. Terry Trudel
did concur in September 1999 that he disagreed with the practice of parent
blaming instead of holding the teenager responsible for his actions. Philip’s “empowerment” by SOSCF proved to be
a highly significant undermining of our parental authority, and of Philip’s
attitude toward all authority.
I believe it is obvious to everybody who has been involved with Philip this past year that parenting Philip would require considerably more than average attention. It is probably also obvious that parenting Philip would require a more aggressive parenting style than normal children.
I would like independent confirmation that Philip’s behavior has always been his own issue and that my parenting technique was a heroic example of self-control. The SOSCF, even though they closed my case, still have in their records, a BOGUS “founded” finding of “mental injury”. I want exoneration and have my records at SOSCF expunged. Previous cases of innuendo, allusion, and untruth in SOSCF records are their primary evidence in launching future cases of innuendo, allusion, and untruth.
Stephanie Williams and Molly Rogers “abuse” attitude in started at the very first CRT meeting because I did not know the clinical words “enuresis” and “encopresis” when asked to detail some of Philip’s “issues” and used common language terms instead.
Leonard
Henderson Letter, Page 2
From the very
start, the Juvenile Department and SOSCF “second guessed”, disparaged, and
discarded our, the Parent’s lifetime experience with Philip, and the
medications that our Medical doctor have found effective to “control” Philip’s
behavior.
We have found
that Zyprexa DOES control Philip’s aggressive behavior. We know from years of
experience managing the Manic-Depressive malady of Philip’s mother that Zyprexa
seems to have NO OTHER undesirable side effect than WEIGHT GAIN. We have noted
that anytime Philip goes to State custody that the Zyprexa is apparently
withheld from him.
Please
note: Neither Joanna or I claim that
Zyprexa “fixes” or “cures” Philip. I
could be well said that the medication “masks” the underlying condition. Joanna’s underlying SEVERE condition of
Manic-Depression could be said to be “masked” by Lithium and an
anti-psychotic. But medication does
ENABLE her to lead a fairly normal, productive life. In Philip’s instance, an anti-psychotic does control the
dangerous aggressiveness, but what’s left is lazy, lethargic, and unmotivated. This could be a combination of heredity (since
these traits describe Philip’s biological father) and the general attitude
of a majority of today’s American youth.
Joanna is
extremely concerned that Philip is on a “fast track” to lifetime incarceration.
She knows from
her own experience that without her diagnosis of Manic Depression at the age of
26 and suitable medication, that she would quite surely have spent the past 20
years institutionalized- or dead.
Joanna, as a
loving mother deeply concerned about her son’s future, desires that Philip have
some considerable psychological examination, including an MRI, looking for a
deformed temporal lobe. Joanna believes that Philip has exactly the
same malady as she does. She does
accurately cite the various levels of psychosis or “eccentric” behavior found
in her siblings and prior generations.
The problem with
finding a genuine diagnosis is the semantics, definitions, politics, motive,
agenda, and life-view of various psychologists and agencies involved.
From the DSM-IV comes a mass of over-lapping New-Age “disorder” and “syndrome” diagnoses for children, any of which somewhat describes Philip’s behavior:
Additional Conditions
that may be a focus of clinical attention
V71.02 Child or
Adolescent Antisocial Behavior
Leonard Henderson, Page 3
Based on our recent experience with
State-employed psychologists Dr. Ida Pacheco and Dr. Conant-Norville,
whose opinions were highly biased toward SOSCF’s desire to fabricate an abuse
case, we find psychological examinations can be entirely subjective and the
“diagnosis” may be whatever the person who signs the check WANTS IT TO BE. Yes, we do cast significant doubt on their
ethics.
The only honest, REAL
PSYCHOLOGIST we encountered last year was Dr. Terry Trudel. But we sensed that he felt quite inhibited
in being able to express his TRUE OPINION.
As Philip’s “Daddy” since 1987,
having been constrained from issuing corporeal punishment during my entire
tenure, I am quite interested in how Philip reacted and responded to the severe
control he experienced at the Oregon National Guard “Boot Camp”. From my own experience in exerting a
“military style” level of supervision over him after a substantial theft or
other serious offense, I observed grudging compliance. Based on my experience with mentally
unstable individuals, this kind of supervision and control would cause a highly
significant episode of rebellion.
Philip complied, but made SNEAKY PLANS to circumvent observation.
I still believe he is capable of
a QUANTUM SHIFT in attitude. He has
GOTTEN AWAY with every infraction, offense, and behavior event with absolutely
NO SIGNIFICANT repercussions
until this summer. He has been handled
with “kid gloves”, babied, made to be the “victim” instead of the ABUSER. He has been “empowered” and “given the green
light” to continue his behavior by SOSCF.
He has received a long series of impotent “punishments” and
“easy-outs’.
I would be quite interested in
how Philip reacts to what apparently is REAL INCARCERATION-- If this facility
is REAL STEEL BAR CAGES, with none of the LUXURIOUS AMMENITIES he imagines
prison to be (unlimited TV or rotten movies).
This spring he told his mother that he wanted to spend the rest of his
life in prison because they wouldn’t make him do anything and he could just
watch TV.
If this facility is “warm and
fuzzy” instead of harsh and desolate, once again, he will learn nothing.
I believe that a significantly
unpleasant incarceration situation could be worthwhile if it succeeded in
creating a permanent paradigm shift in his perspective. In bygone days, this was accomplished with a
tour in the military where attitude shifts were compelled.
Should we find that no amount of
available corporeal punishment accomplishes the goal, the psychiatric avenue
may be the best option. There could be
a problem beyond-- “Philip doesn’t want- or have to- behave himself”.
My foremost concern is that
without soon seeing some successes, Philip’s future is dark.
Sincerely,
J. Leonard Henderson